SELF CONFIDENCE. This is a major struggle for the shy type – especially for guys exploring on the dating scene.
If you ever find yourself in a ditch of meeting that special girl; then try these six useful tips.
If you’re scared of those long awkward conversations – try speed dating.
First dates can be nerve-racking especially for shy guys, so speed dating can be a good opportunity to practice those conversation skills you’ve been keeping. Those organized series of short talks with potential partners may be the gateway to what you have been looking for.
Women Are Just People
Women, like your mom and sister, are human beings – so what are you so afraid about?
If these female figures in your life are all just regular people, the same is true with any other women in the world. Men and women all have strengths and weaknesses; no one is above the other. This mindset will help you win over your own shyness.
Building Platonic Friendships with the Ladies
Platonic by definition is a relationship purely out of friendship and in a non-sexual way.
Stop nitpicking! Pay attention and build genuine friendships with those ladies you’re not attracted to. Your rapport with these women will help you learn a lot in understanding and respecting their ways, and may also help you win your dream girl’s heart.
Learn and Practice
Consulting with the experts about your shyness is not a bad idea. As the internet is made available for everyone in this era, you can now search the web for various videos about overcoming shyness. You may ask for support from a close female friend in practicing what you have learned, which can also help in an easy and good development.
Be a Boyfriend Material
A man with genuinely good qualities are still what captures a woman’s heart in the long run. Forget all those unrealistic models in the magazine telling you to be someone else. Be your own self. Let the right one see the kind of boyfriend material she’s been looking for: True to your heart.
Stop Doubting Yourself
Have faith in yourself. Overcome your adversity. No one can build your own dreams but you.
Participate in various activities, add new people to your acquaintances, and maintain good relation with those you already know and those you do not. Step out of your comfort zone. Shake off all the shyness, and remember:
“Insecurity is the lack of trust in your abilities and worth. When you enter into a secured state of consciousness, everything that helped boost your confidence will return.” ― Itohan Eghide, Master of Maxims