“First love never dies,” as the popular song says. The exact feeling may have been forgotten but its impact will always affect your decisions with your future relationships. These 10 reasons will tell you whatever the reason is, you will never forget about your first love.
Your first love is powerful
Nothing has moved you so much until you feel your first love. It was like a great surprise that caught you. Those excitements were so genuine. That first love was so powerful that it awakened you to a new world and brought out your emotions like never before.
Your first heartbreak is Powerful too
It requires a powerful heartbreak to overthrow a first love. The intensity of the circumstances leading to the heartbreak will be too much to handle for a first-time lover. You may have forgiven her for the pain of the breakup but the memories of the powerful breakup will still remain inside regardless.
Your first love was innocent
Your first love was a feeling that emerged on its own. It is very genuine and cannot be easily manipulated. It can also be developed naturally over time. Though, you will also be innocent about the extent of pain it might bring you.
Your first love came with other firsts
There will also be too many firsts that you will experience at the same time as your first love. These can cover from emotional, social, and physical first encounters you never had before. The fact is, all these firsts will be with you throughout your life, even as you carry on to new future relationships.
You had your first “Us”
Your first love made you feel the extreme feeling for a special person. This feeling led you to think that she is a part of your world. You will have included her in your plans and dreams for your own future. She becomes a part of the new you; a world you set for “us” (the both of you).
You may had no choice how your first love ended
Even if you try so much, the fate of your first relationship (as well as the next ones), is beyond your control. Every relationship is driven by both individuals in it. So, if she has no more intention of saving the relationship, then start saving something for your own heart.
You first love represents your youth
You were young, adventurous and energetic. Your first love was also because of your youthful nature. Regardless of the results, your first love remains an experience that is part of your youthhood. Your first love may fail but it was part of your process to adulthood and maturity.
Your first love represents possibility
There are too many possibilities that came along with your first love. In every relationship scenario, you can think of the many what-ifs. That is, what if you made a different decision or lead the whole relationship to a different direction.
Your first love changed you
Either you admit it or not, your first love has changed you or at least, a part of you. There is something about you that was changed because of your first encounter with love. It could be about your hobbies, your preferences, or your physical and emotional aspects.
Your first love only happens once
You have no other first love. There is no way you can deny or space from it. Whatever happens is what your first love will be all about. You can’t change it, you can only just accept it.
Apart from the reasons listed above, you may end up spending the rest of your lifetime with your first love. That is the best reason there is to never forget everything about your first love. If you indeed end up having the best love story with your first love, then congratulations to you and give yourself a big pat in the back.